Learning to Trust yourself by Tama Kieves
Stacey Irving • February 27, 2025
Learning to Trust yourself - Breaking through the blocks that hold you back - A self help book

I just finished Learning to Trust yourself - Breaking through the blocks that hold you back by Tama Kieves and here are my thoughts.
Firstly, I don’t read a lot of self help books. I find they kinda pigeon hole people into one direction and I’m a free little Beeatch so I don’t gravitate to them. This one was different. It hit me with the title. The cover.. I dunno I just felt like there could be something in there just for me. Maybe that’s a bit egotistical but I was right.
I felt the practice parts were easy to fit into my day and didn’t take up a lot of time but I got something from it. Has the book fixed me?? I’m feeling more optimistic in not punishing myself and trusting in myself.
The writing was great. I felt connected. I felt heard, which is insane. I understand that haha. I did make notes which I never do! I even annotated it… with the sticker tabs I’m not a complete heathen and I did recommend my friend to grab a copy because I’m not giving her mine.. sorry J!
4.5 stars. I’ve made some changes in my habits that I know will last a lifetime. Be kind to yourself and I will remember to be kind to myself too.
Thank you @stmartinspress for my gifted copy.
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